Monday, December 10, 2007

Christmas Tree.

Yesterday Casey and I went to get our Christmas tree. It didn't start off too well. First we went to the place we went last year and had a bit of sticker shock- as well as disappointment in the quality of the trees. We left and stopped at another place on the way back to the apartment- again, the sticker shock. Casey was talking about just getting a fake one, as we had discussed several times, or just getting a pre-cut, but real, one at Walmart or Lowes. As we drove away from the second place, I was in tears. I guess I didn't realize how much a real tree meant to me until then- and how much I really didn't want to get a tree at Walmart, for goodness sakes! While we were at the second place, a woman asked us if we'd been anywhere else and she mentioned a place called Ticonderoga Farms. Well, after the second place we went back to the apartment and Casey looked up more places to go, including Ticonderoga Farms. I was being pouty laying in bed while he was looking all of this up. He says from the other room that "duh, the trees are more expensive because of the drought we've had this year." Good point, I guess. Anyways, a few minutes pass and he comes in with a few sheets of paper and a grin on his face. My spirits lift a little because I can see he's got something in mind he knows will make me happy- his only goal- but I'm still kinda sad about our day so far. We get in the car and head back out. He says that at Ticonderoga Farms, you can cut your own tree- just like back home... as well as being out in the woods... on a dirt road! It may seem silly to be excited about such things, but I'm a Vermont girl- where dirt roads and cutting your own Christmas tree are what I've always known- and it was so sweet that Casey found a place for me to experience these things, even though I'm in Virginia. It turned out that we didn't even get our tree at Ticonderoga Farms, where they charge by the foot and all the trees were tall, but went back to the second place and settled for the most inexpensive, but pretty shaped, tree we could find. I was really happy to get the tree back to the apartment and decorated. There is something about a lit and decorated Christmas tree that just makes me happy inside. The memories you share with your family around a Christmas tree from the time you are little. The special ornaments you put up each year- remembering each sentimental moment those ornaments hold. Christmas trees remind me of home and of family. Although I'm away from home, I'm so glad to have Casey to share my Christmas tree moments with for the rest of my Christmases. He really turned a not so great morning into a expression of the love and devotion he has for me. That's a great thing to experience during this season... better than any material present, that's for sure! I also love how he will only put up "us" ornaments- as in ornaments with our names on them. He hangs them next to each other and leaves the rest of the ornaments to me. It's great to share such moments with him- and to eat the yummy pizza he makes while I decorate the tree! That may become a tradition... one that we share with our future family... in our home away from home.

Sunday, December 2, 2007

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!

So, I didn't exactly get all the cleaning done that I wanted to this weekend, but I did get most of my Christmas decorations out. I am especially pleased with the dining room. Christmas decorating put me in a great mood- listening to the festive music and placing out joyful symbols of the season. Last year, my first year away from home, Mom sent me details on how our family has traditionally put out the most important symbol of all- the nativity. My pieces are few right now, but I have "all the important dudes." ;) Today I put out my angel and my "extra" animals... as well as a few miscellaneous pieces I've aquired. My nativity is made up of Fontanini pieces, which my Grama and several of my Aunts also have. The cresh was made for me by my Dad last year. I look forward to expanding my pieces as years go by, but more importantly I look forward to sharing the tradition and Christmas meaning that goes along with a nativity with the family of my future.

In the living room, the nativity sets the stage for the season.

Pretty glasses and mugs, as well as the beautiful, and unique, advent calendar Mom gave me last year.

A table partly set- I'm hoping I can get through the season without the cats pulling the tablecloth off- along with the plates and other decorations.

My favorite part of the room- the "window treatments." It's very simple- all I've done is hung small ornaments and put wrapping paper over cardboard for the top trim, but I just really love how it turned out. I also love the framed paper from a Pottery Barn bag. I love that pattern, and this was an inexpensive way to get it in my home! Oh, and of course there is Lucy playing with the blinds.

Saturday, December 1, 2007

Getting into the Christmas spirit!

This weekend is going to be a busy one. I've already started cleaning up the apartment- it will truly be an overhaul- to prepare for Christmas decorating. I say it will be an overhaul because as I'm cleaning, I'm also going to be moving some stuff around and purging things I don't feel will make the move to the new condo. Maybe I'm planning too far ahead, which I doubt, but the condo closing is during tax season, meaning the boy will be working LONG days (over 12 hours a day during the week, probably!) and I'd really like to get started preparing for the move... especially because a lot of it will be done by me and me alone. Now don't get me wrong, I don't mind that much- it's the control freak in me! :)

Anyways, I'm really getting into the Christmas spirit the past few days- I guess going anywhere shopping right now will do that to you- and I'm ready to get creative in the decorating. We don't have the budget for new decorations, but I'm looking forward to taking what we have and making a cozy Christmas home for us. I only get one full day in Vermont for Christmas this year, so I want to make our apartment here in VA as warm and welcoming as possible for those days I come home from work during the holiday season. Plus, Mom, Dad, and Sister are coming for a little Christmas at our place this year, which I'm really looking forward to, and I want it to be pretty and un-cluttered when they visit. Hopefully I'll have some pretty decorating to take pictures of and share- but we'll see where my creativity takes me!

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Friends, old and new.

When I got done the job I left for my current job, a girl who also worked there, who was becoming a good friend, left on the same day to move back to her parents' home in New York. Today I got a message from her saying she was moving back to Virginia and that she's starting work back at the old (to me anyway) place on Monday. I am really excited that she is coming back- especially because I think she could continue to become a really great friend, which is something I could really use down here in Virginia. Casey is the greatest- my best friend and love of my life- but there are some things a girl just can't share with a boy. She is loud and a little crazy, but I love it- especially because I am one or both of those things a lot of the time. I could really use a friend like her close by. My girls back home mean so much to me, but it is hard to keep up with each other living so far apart. I have been thinking about how much I want to keep in better touch with my family and friends back home, especially after the last few trips home without having one of my besties around (she's studying abroad in France), yet I haven't tried very hard so far. Although my France-friend frustrates me with her lack of effort towards our friendship and towards keeping in touch- which hurts because I really value her as a friend and confidant, we've shared a lot of the same experiences and it's nice to have someone to relate to- I still want to know what's going on in her life. It sucks that I can't be there sharing the awesome experiences she's having in France- with new friends- but she's living her life, as am I, and I can't be angry or upset with her about that. I've just got to cherish the moments I have with all of the beautiful people in my life, the old friends and the new, because if you don't share life's moments with someone, who on Earth is going to believe you when you write your autobiography? :)

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Blog makeover.

As you can see, the blog got a makeover. Although dolphins at sunrise still awe me, my life has changed a lot since this blog started. When it started I was still obsessed (a strong word, but nearly fitting) with moving back to Vermont- I never thought I could settle in Virginia. Yet here I am with a great job and homeownership in the near future- in Virginia, not Vermont. Don't get me wrong, I'm certainly not settling completely- Vermont will always be home and I can't wait to move back! But I'm not so anxious about it anymore. When this blog started, I wasn't sure Casey would ever propose- and here I am now less than nine months from the big day! The wedding day that is, mentioning nine months makes is sound like something it definitely isn't! Some things remain the same, like my love for my family and friends, and especially for Casey. Life is good, and I'm glad I have this space to share the goodness with whoever wants to read about it! Life should be about sharing and enjoying great experiences, and not so great ones, whether they are our experiences or someone elses... that's how inspiration happens.